YOUR GOALS
你的目标

Let's get real about things here, relationships are meant to help you grow and reach your goals both thanks to your hard work and the support of your loving partner. Whatever your goals and no matter how big or small they are, don't forget about them for love, because you may regret it!
认真一点，恋情本该帮助你成长、实现目标，而这与自己的努力以及另一半的支持密切相关。不管你的目标是什么，不管这些目标是大是小，千万不要因为爱情而忘记它们，因为如果这样做了，你可能会后悔一生！

YOUR FRIENDS
你的朋友

Having an amazing group of friends around you who are always there to support your every decision is priceless and is definitely something that shouldn't be sacrificed for the sake of a relationship. Your man should love your friends as much as you do.
身边有一群陪着自己，总是支持自己每一个决定的朋友是无价的，不该因为一段恋情而牺牲这些朋友。你的男人应该和你一样爱你的朋友。

YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FAMILY
你和家人的关系

Your relationship with your family is one of the most important in the world and your bond should stay unbreakable. If your SO doesn't get along with your family, then you need to start asking yourself some tough questions.
你和家人的关系是世间最重要的关系之一，亲人间的纽带应该是牢不可破的。如果你的另一半与你的家人处不来，那你就得问自己一些关键的问题了。

YOUR VALUES
你的价值观

Our values are an essential part of our DNA and really do make us who we are. It's true that not everyone can share the same values, but that's not to say you should forget about yours just because your partner disagrees with them.
我们的价值观是自身DNA的重要部分，让我们成为最真实的自己。的确，不是每个人都有同样的价值观，但这并不是说另一半不认可你的价值观，你就应该忘记。

YOUR SELF-WORTH
你的自我价值

You are a queen and don't ever let anyone tell you differently. The love and appreciation you have for yourself should grow in a relationship, not diminish.
你是女王，不要让任何人告诉你该怎么怎么样。恋爱时，你对自己的关爱和欣赏应该在增加，而不是减少。

YOUR CAREER
你的事业

Being a strong and successful career woman is something that deserves to be respected, however the sad reality is that it isn't always the case. A relationship shouldn't mean you have to sacrifice the career you love and have worked so hard for.
成为坚强成功的职场女性应该得到尊重，然而，可悲的现实是，事情并不总是这样。恋情并不意味着牺牲自已喜爱并且为之努力的工作。

FREEDOM
自由

Being in a relationship shouldn't mean you have to compromise your freedom and change your hobbies and activities. Relationships are about blossoming together and accepting each other's needs.
谈恋爱并不意味着你得妥协自身的自由、改变你的爱好和活动。谈恋爱，最重要的是一起绽放、接受彼此的需要。

YOUR HAPPINESS
你的幸福

Happiness is the most important thing in life and everyone deserves to be happy and content within themselves. Your relationship should make you the happiest you have ever been. If it doesn't, then something is off.
幸福是生活中最重要的事情，每个人都值得幸福、满足。你的恋情应该让你成为最幸福的人。如果没有，那就还缺少那么一点"东西"。

YOUR AMBITIONS
你的梦想

Perhaps in the future you see yourself having kids, getting a dog and moving out of the city, if so, there is no way you should compromise your life ambitions for the sake of a relationship.
也许未来的你生了孩子，养着一条小狗，住在了郊区，如果是这样，千万不要为了爱情妥协自己的人生梦想。