Lesson five  first principles

What do u learn about laura? Why were her parents so proud of her?
Laura was a slim, dark-haired girl of fourteen. she was smart and a pupil at Green Valley Academy.
Christmas Day was coming, laura wanted a ballerina dress as a gift from her parents to attend some parties. But when laura’s mother told her about her father’s unemployment, she understood them and said she didn’t care about presents or parties. During the time when the family spent Christmas Day at the farm, laura seemed to radiate happiness. It was laura’s obvious pleasure that had a wonderful Christmas Day. Therefore, laura’s parents were proud of her.

Lesson six  The beauty of  Britain

Britain is a small but beautiful country .One of its charms lies in its variety with the territory of 240500 square kilometers, it has mountains, plains and lakes as other countries. Someone perhaps says that the mountains there are only mountains in miniature . Although those mountains are small, they all have the air of great mountains .Another characteristic of Britain is its happy surprise. A traveler will kept being pleasantly astonished by the landscape. On a rolling plain, you might suddenly noticed mountains with step slopes ahead. In a highly developed industrial district ,he would see out of expectation a rough wilderness. But the most impressing would be the happy compromise between Nature and Man, country and city .This characteristic is obvious in suburbs where the inhabitants can not only enjoy the civilization of the city, but also live a comfortable country gentlemen’s life .

Lesson seven  some meanings of authentic love 

In author’s opinion, what does love mean?
1. Love means I know the person I love.
2. Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love.
3. Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love.
4. Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love.
5. Love means growth for both myself and the person I love.
6. Love can tolerate imperfection.
7. Love is freeing.
8. Love is expansive.
9. Love means having a want for the person I love without having a need for that person in order to be complete.
10. Love means identifying with the person I love.
11. Love is selfish.
12. Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love.

Lesson ten  On friendship

Four different-kinds of friendship:
American
Few American stay put for a lifetime. Americans use the word ”friend” to a wide range from someone known only a few weeks, most people, old and young r called by first name, and friends flow in and out American family with little ceremony.很少美国人一辈子呆在一个地方的。美国人使用朋友一词时，朋友可适用广泛只结识几个星期的，朋友们进进出出美国家庭很少有礼节。

France
In France, as in many European countries, friends generally are of the same sex, and friendship is seen as basically a relationship between men.正如许多欧洲国家一样，在法国，朋友通常都是性别相同之人，友谊被视为是男士间的基本关系。
For the French, friendship is a one-to-one relationship that demands a keen awareness of the other person’s intellect, temperament and particular interests.法国人所认为的友情是一种一对一的关系，要求一方能敏锐地察觉另一方的才智、性情以及特别的兴趣爱好。
The special relationship of friendship is based on what the French value most –on the mind, on having the same of outlook, on vivid awareness of some chosen area of life. 友谊这一特殊关系以法国人最珍视的东西为基础——思想、观点的一致以及对生活中某一方面的具体感悟。
Germany
In Germany, friendship is much more clearly a matter of feeling, from deeply sentimental attachments, not so much to polish their wits as to share their hopes and fears and dreams. Within the family, the closest relationship over the lifetime is between brothers and sisters. Outside the family, men and women find in their closest friends of the same sex the devotion of sister, the loyalty of a brother.在德国友谊更明确地表现为感情问题，彼此建立起深厚的感情，其目的并不是为了增加自己的智慧，而是为了分享彼此的愿望、忧虑与梦想。在家庭内部，一生中最亲密的关系存在于兄弟姐妹之间。在家庭以外，人们在同性间最亲密的朋友身上发现如姐妹般的奉献，如兄弟般的忠诚。
English
English friendships, their basis is shared activity. In the midst of the activity, whatever it may be, people fall into step.英国人之间的友情建立的基础是共同的行为。无论是何种行为，在行为的过程中人们的步调变得一致。
And a break in an English friendship comes not necessarily as a result of misjudgement, where one friend seriously misjudges how the other will think or feel act, so that suddenly they are out of step.此外英国人友谊的中断并不是由于见解不同或情感不和造成的，而是由于判断失误造成的，一个人可能会很严重地对另一个人的思维方式、感受或行为方式做出了错误的判断，于是彼此间突然变得不默契。

What’s the friendship?
There is the recognition that friendships r formed, in contrast with kinship, through freedom of choice. A friend is someone who choose and is chosen. Related to this is the sense each friend gives the other of being a special individual, on whatever grounds this recognition is based. And between friends there is inevitably a kind of equality of give and take.人们一致认为，与亲属关系不同，友谊建立在自由选择的基础上。朋友既是选择别人又为别人所选择的人。随之而来的是在朋友之间双方都能使对方感到自己是与众不同的，无论这种感觉的依据是什么。此外朋友间不可避免地要有来有往，互让互谅。

Lesson thirteen  How to grow old?

老年人应如何避免变老？
.Psychologically there are two dangers to be guarded against in old age. One of these is too great an absorption in the past. One should not live in memories, in regrets for the good old days, or in sadness about friend who are dead. One's thoughts must be directed to the future, and to things about which there is something to be done. This is not always easy; one's own past is a gradually increasing weight. It is easy to think to oneself that one's emotions used to be more vivid than they are, and one's mind more keen. If this is true it should be forgotten, and if it is forgotten it will probably not be true. 从心理角度来说，老年时期要提防两种危险。一是沉湎于过去。人不应该生活在记忆之中，不要总为一去不复返的好时光而懊丧，不要总为故去的朋友而悲伤。人的思想应该转向未来，应该转向自己还能有所作为的那些事情上去。要做到这一点并非易事；自己的过去逐渐成了精神负担。人很容易自思自量，感到自己的感情不如以往强烈，思维不如以往敏锐。如果真是如此，就别去想它，假如你根本不去想它，也许这就不会成真。
The other thing to be avoided is clinging to youth in the hope of finding strength in its vitality. When your children are grown up they want to live their own lives, and if you continue to be as interested in them as you were when they were young, you are likely to become a burden to them, unless they are unusually insensible. I do not mean that one should be without interest in them, but one's interest should be contemplative and, if possible, philanthropic, but not too emotional. 另一件要避免的事，就是依恋子女，希望从他们身上的活力中获取生命的力量。孩子们长大之后，想过自己的生活，如果你还是像他们小时候那样关注他们，你很可能会成为他们的负担，除非他们十分麻木而感觉不到这一点。我不是说不应该关注他们，而是说对他们的关注应该是含蓄的，如果有可能还应是宽厚的，但感情上不要过于依赖他们。
Don’t fear to death, the best way to overcome it is to make your interests gradually wider and more impersonal, until bit by bit the walls of the ego recede, and your life becomes increasingly part of the universal life.
不要害怕死亡，克服怕死心理的最好办法就是使你的兴趣更加广博，更加超脱具体的个人，直至包围自我的围墙一点点地消失，直至你的生命逐渐溶入整个宇宙之中，成为其一部分。
变老阶段的暗喻
An individual human existence should be like a river——small at first, narrowly contained within its banks, and rushing passionately past rocks and over waterfalls. Gradually the river grows wider, the banks recede, the waters flow more quietly, and in the end, without any visible break, they become part of the sea, and painlessly lose their individual being. The man who, in old age, can see his life in this way, will not suffer from the fear of death, since the thing be cares for will continue
一个人的生命历程应该是像江河一样——开始是细小的，让两岸紧紧抱住，然后奔腾直泻，流过山岩，飞越瀑布，然后河面渐渐变宽，堤岸慢慢后退，水流趋缓，最后不留一丝痕迹地溶入大海，毫无痛苦的失去了自身的存在。垂幕之年这样看待人生的人，是不会因接近死亡而恐惧和烦恼的，因为他喜爱的事业会继续下去。
作者一生三个牵挂
1． The longing for love. He has sought love, first, because it brings ecstasy, next, because it relieves loneliness. Finally, because in the union of love. He has seen, in a mystic miniature, the prefiguring vision of the heaven that saints and poets have imagined.对爱的渴望。他寻求过爱情，首先是因为它使人心醉神迷，其次因为它能使人摆脱孤独。最后，从融洽的爱中他看到了一种奇妙的微观形式，向他预示了圣人和诗人所想象的天堂
2． The search for knowledge. With equal passion he has sought knowledge.对知识的渴求。他以同样的热情寻求知识。
3． Unbearable pity for suffering of mankind. Love and knowledge, so far as they were possible, led upward toward the heavens. But always pity brought him back to earth. He longs for alleviate the evil, but he can not, and he too suffer.对人类苦难的深深同情。爱情和知识在其可能性的范围内把他带到了天堂。但怜悯心总是又把他带回人间。他渴望减少邪恶，但我无能为力，因而他也感到痛苦。

Lesson fifteen  Edison: Inventor of Invention

What was the most important contribution of Edison to people?
It is impossible to measure the importance of Edison by adding up the specific inventions with which his name is associated. Far-reaching as many of them have been in their effect upon modern civilization, the total effect of Edison’s career surpasses the sum of al of them. He did not merely make the incandescent lamp and the phonograph and innumerable other devices practicable for general use; it was given to him to demonstrate the power of applied science so concretely, to understandably, so convincingly that he altered the mentality of mankind.
Because of Edison, more than of any other man, scientific research has an established place in our society :because of the demonstrations he made, the money of taxpayers and stockholders has become available for studies the nature.
The lighthouse keeper,83 years old, lived alone on a rock island, took care of the lighthouse and the great lamp, which spoke majestic, silent messages of light to the ships at sea. He was a huge old man with a grizzled beard that came down over his chest.
(1)He was hospitable. He welcomed the stranger, Rudolf, warmly, offered him black bread and boiled potatoes, etc. and talked with him earnestly.
(2)The lighthouse keeper loved his work and was devoted to his duty .When the storm was coming, he was busy preparing for the storm, attending to the great lamp in the tower, that dominated the whole region.
(3)He was equable, deliberate. Even when the storm hammered like a battering ram on the walls of the lighthouse, he sat there, gentle and reflective, as if there was nothing happened.
Generally, the lighthouse keeper was a deliberate, equable toiler. He loved life without excessive demands.

lessone six What are the three geographical characteristics of Britain?

The beauty of Britain is as hard to define as it is easy to enjoy.
(1)The first characteristic is that it is varied within a small range, It seems that nature has carefully adjusted things-mountains, plants, rivers, lakes , to the scale of the island itself. there is astonishing variety almost everywhere, everything is in miniature. some mountains, for example, although not very high, have all the air of great mountains
(2)Secondly, surprise goes with variety. the country is full of happy surprises. one can always be pleasantly astonished while traveling.
(3)The third characteristic of the landscape is its exquisite moderation. it has been born of a compromise between wildness and tameness, between nature and man. there is compromise in the surburb, where the inhabitants feel that they have one foot in the city and one in the country. there is also harmony in the country where the cottages fit snugly into the landscape.