设身处地的英文：
[Literal Meaning]
imagine/in person/put/place
to imagine putting oneself in the place

[解释]
设想自己处在别人的那种境地，替别人着想。

[Explanation]
to put oneself in other's position

[例子]
我们应该设身处地地为她考虑一下，毕竟她的孩子只有五岁。

[Example]
We should put ourselves in her shoes and consider for her interests; after all her child is only five years old.

[英文等价词]
put oneself in other's shoes

Put all the negatives aside and concentrate on what your mother is feeling instead of just on what you're feeling.
把所有的不愉快都抛在脑后,设身处地为妈妈着想,千万不要只注重自己的感觉。