Qualities Women Look For In A Man

女人最希望在男人身上看到的特质

Every woman has a laundry list of attributes they desire in a partner. Here are 10 desirable qualities that women look for in a man -- from the way he walks into a room to never breaking a promise -- and the reasons why every man should aspire to display these attributes to the opposite sex.

每个女人都想在她们的另一半身上看到她们希望其具备的一长串特质。这里有10条女人想在男人身上看到的品质特征——从他走进房间的方式和从不食言的作风——以及为什么每个男人都应该在女人面前展示这些特质的原因。

1. Be Humorous

幽默

Women want a man who can make them laugh, or at least show them the humor in even the most uncomfortable situation. The ability to joke at the stresses of life, and being in a relationship, is a must.

女人想要一个能够使她们开怀大笑，或者是能够在她们不适的情况下展现出幽默感的男人。像这样在生活的压力下依旧能开玩笑的能力，不论在生活中还是在一段关系的维持中都是必须具备的。

2. Be A Teacher

Women often want a man who’ll give them a peek into another world. Teach them something they don’t know about a subject you’re passionate about.

女人通常希望男人能使她们窥探到另一个世界，教她们一些你所热爱的但是她们不了解的事情。

3. Be A Good Dad (Eventually)

做一个好父亲（最后）

Being a good dad involves qualities like patience and compassion -- qualities women want in a partner for their own needs and the eventual needs of their kids.

做一个好父亲所需要的品质包括耐心和同情心——这是女人自己对于伴侣的需求和他们的孩子的最终需求。

4. Be Kind

Kindness is consistently ranked as one of the best and sexiest qualities a man can have. A man who treats you right, is nice to other people and gives back to his community is a catch.

友好一直是一个男人能拥有的最优秀最性感的品质。如果一个男人十分宠爱你，对其他人也很好，并且能回报社会做出贡献，那么这个男人是十分抢手的。

5. Be Generous

There are two different types of generosity . The first is being generous with possessions -- donating gifts or money to charities or those less fortunate. The second is being generous with time -- spending time with people in need of a sympathetic ear or a shoulder to cry on, or with the special woman in your life.

有两种不同种类的慷慨。第一种是在财务方面的慷慨——给慈善机构和那些不幸的人捐赠礼物和金钱。第二种是在时间方面的慷慨——愿意花时间与那些需要被倾听和安慰的人身上，这个人或者是你生命中特别的女人。

6. Be Mysterious

神秘

It’s true that women love excitement, especially in a new relationship, and there is no better way to keep that excitement alive than being slightly secretive. In the later stages of a relationship, keep it mysterious with things like weekend plans or surprise gifts for special occasions.

在一段全新的关系中，女人容易爱激动这是事实，但要保持这样的激情最好的办法是留有一些秘密。在一段关系发展到后来阶段，可以尝试用特别的周末计划、惊喜的礼物或者是参与特殊的场合来保持神秘感。

7. Be Dependable

可靠

Women want a man who’ll keep a promise and stay true to his word, even if it’s something as simple as dinner plans or a weekend getaway.

女人想要的是一个许下承诺，然后信守诺言的男人，即使是像晚餐安排和周末度假这样一些简单的事。

8. Be Faithful

忠诚

Prove from the start that you’re faithfully committed -- watch that wandering eye in public, and don't go exchanging flirtatious texts with old flames -- and she’ll do the same.

从一开始就证明你的承诺是忠诚的——注意在公众场合下眼神不要游离到别人身上，也不要跟前任互相发调情短信。这样而她也会忠诚于你。

9. Be Confident

Confidence is crucial. A confident man can handle unfamiliar situations with ease and assurance, and won't be rattled if he commits a minor gaffe, even if everyone's watching.

自信是至关重要的。一个自信的人可以泰然自若地处理各种不熟悉的情形，即使在别人的目光下犯了一个小错误，他也不会惊慌失措。

10. Be Passionate

Be passionate about her completely -- show interest in her not only sexually but emotionally as well. Take an interest in the things that make her tick -- from her work to her volunteer work, her hobbies and life goals.

对她充满热情——不仅仅在性方面表现出兴趣，还要在情感上表现出热情的态度。同时对她要做的事也感兴趣，这些事情包括从她的工作到她的志愿者服务工作，以及她的爱好和生活目标。

（翻译：索菲亚）