建议：

首先我们需要知道，该文主题是工作与家庭哪个更重要。面对这种无法选择的问题，我们需要采取一个中庸的态度，也就是无论是工作还是家庭，我们都得重视。然后分别阐述两者的重要性，最后再总结。

要点提示：

1、理解题意，抓住重心。

2、第一段，引出话题。该文主题工作和家庭哪个更重要。

3、第二段，一一阐述。这种问题，可以先阐述工作的重要性，接着阐述家庭的重要性。

4、第三段，总结全文。说明两者都缺一不可，我们需要好好调节工作与家庭的关系。

参考例文：Career and family

When it comes to the opinion of career and family, people always hold different ideas. Some people deem it more important to pursue their career, while other people argue that family is the most important in one’s life.

On the one hand, there is no doubt that career plays a key role in our life. In the very first place, career gives us an aim to live on and makes our life fulfillment. Without career, much of our living time will be certainly boring. What’s more, career can provide us with a means to live on. Most people earn their income from a job to make a live. On the other hand, family is also an indispensable part of life, as many people will admit. Family is always regarded as a place where we can escape from pressure in life, and we can feel worm with family. In addition, we can obtain a sense of belonging to from family. Without it, anyone will feel lonely and desperate.

As far as I am concerned, career and family are not in opposition to each other. We can concentrate on our job when we are working, and we can spend a happy time with our family when we are off duty. Therefore they can enhance each other so that one’s life can become better and better.