In China, most people believe that boys should be raised in the poor way while the girls should be in the rich way. The poor way means to let the kids do things by their own and their parents won’t be satisfied them all the time. So the rich way means to take care of the kids carefully and pay attention to them. No matter which way the parents carry on, I think it is not the suitable way to raise a kid. Whether the kid is a boy or a girl, they need to be nursed both in the rich and poor ways. It is the parents’ duty to take care of their kids, so they should be patient and kind. But when the children make mistakes, parents should not spoiled them. Kids must be educated and corrected their wrong action. Only in this way the kids can be taught well.
在中国，大多数人认为男孩应该穷养而女孩子要富养。穷养的方式就是让孩子自己动手做事而且父母通常都会不太满意。因此富养的方式则是细心照顾孩子，注意力也放在他们身上。不管父母用什么方式来抚养小孩，我觉得都是不合适的。无论是男孩还是女孩，他们都需要穷养和富养相结合的方式。父母有责任照顾他们的孩子，他们应该要有耐心、和蔼。但是，当孩子犯错时，父母不应该溺爱他们。孩子们必须得到教育，纠正错误行为。只有这样，孩子们才可以教育得更好。