We did not come to remain whole.

我们来不是为全身而退，

We came to lose our leaves like the trees,

我们来是为了像树一样落叶，

Trees that start again. - Robert Bly

像树一样重新开始。——伯特·布莱

No human being can really understand another, and no one can arrange another's happiness. - Graham Greene

没有人可以真正地理解他人，没有人可以安排他人的幸福。——格雷厄姆·格林

To love blindly is to love selfishly, because the goal of such love is not the real advantage of the beloved but only the exercise of love in our own souls. - Thomas Merton

盲目的爱是自私的，因为这种爱不是出于为对方着想，而仅仅只是自我灵魂所做的爱情练习。——托马斯·默顿

I never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude. - Henry David Thoreau

我从没找到过比“独处”更好相处的伴侣。——亨利·戴维·梭罗

I regard romantic comedies as a subgenre of sci-fi, in which the world operates according to different rules than my regular human world. - Mindy Kaling

我把爱情喜剧看作是不入流的科幻，那里的世界用着和正常人类世界不一样的规则。——明迪·卡琳

Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go. - Hermann Hesse

有的人认为坚持会让我们变得更强大，但有时候放手才会让我们变得更强大。——赫尔曼·黑塞

I like being single, I'm always there when I need me. - Art Leo

我喜欢单身，在我需要的时候我自己总会在我身边。——阿尔特·雷欧

Discover why you're important, then refuse to settle for anyone who doesn't completely agree. - Fisher Amelie

寻找证明自己重要的理由，然后拒绝和不能完全同意的人在一起。——费希尔·艾米丽

I don't like to be labeled as lonely just because I am alone. - Delta Burke

我不想只是因为我是独自一人就被贴上孤独的标签。——德尔塔·伯克

This is a good sign, having a broken heart. It means we have tried for something. - Elizabeth Gilbert

心碎是个好兆头，说明我们曾经尝试过。——伊利莎白·吉尔伯特

I am a lover without a lover. I am lovely and lonely and I belong deeply to myself. - Warsan Shire

我没有爱人，但我拥有爱。我可爱、孤独，我就属于我自己。——沃森·赛尔