爱思英语编者按：要想用温和的话气阻止对方的行为，强烈和委婉的语气，怎样用更合适，请看下列例句。

Advice忠告与建议

基本会话必修篇：

You'd better be careful .你最好小心一点儿。

You'd better not be so pessimistic .你最好不要这么悲观。

You should visit your parents more often .你应该多去看看父母。

Did you make sure ?你确定吗？

Why don't you talk it over with your father ?你为什么不和你父亲商量一下？

Mind your own business .不关你的事。

Easy does it .别着急。/放松点儿。

Hold it .等一下。/到这儿吧。

Hurry up !快点儿。

You asked for it .自作自受。/活该。

Watch your tongue .别多嘴。/别那么多话。

Act your age .成熟点儿。

基本会话典型例句提高篇：

1.You'd better be careful .你最好小心一点儿。

A:Are you seeing Tom ?
你在和汤姆来往吗？

B:Yes , I am .
是啊。
A:You'd better be careful with him . He's a complete liar .
你最好小心一点儿。他是个十足的骗子。

B:How do you know that ?
你怎么知道？

2.You'd better not be so pessimistic .你最好不要这么悲观。

A:You seem to be depressed these days . What's happened ?
最近你看起来很沮丧。出什么事了？

B:I flunked the exam again . I'll never graduate .
我考试又没通过，看来毕不了业了。

A:You'd better not be so pessimistic .
你最好不要这么悲观。

3.You should visit your parents more often .你应该多去看看父母。

A:Mom calls me every day !
我老妈天天给我打电话！

B:When was the last time you saw her ?
你上次去看她是什么时候？

A:More than a year ago .
有一年多的。

B:You should visit your parents more often .
你应该多去看看父母。

4.Did you make sure ?你确定了吗？

A:Did you get a message from John ?
收到约翰的短信了吗？

B:Yes . We are supposed to meet at 10 tomorrow .
嗯，我们定好明天10点见。

A:Did you make sure ?
你们敲定了吗？

B:Not yet . I'll call him back later .
还没有。我过会儿会打电话的。

5.Why don't you talk it over with your teacher ?为什么不和你的老师商量一下。

A:Congratulations ! I heard you've been accepted at two universities .
祝贺你啊！我听说你被两所大学同时录取了。

B:Thank you . But I can't decide which one I should go to .
谢谢。但是我不知道应该去哪所。

A:Why don't you talk it over with your teacher ?
那为什么不和你的老师商量一下呢？