In love and marriage Gemini men have the contrast of mild affections（喜爱，感情） and sensual passions. The two qualities, within this sign, have little in common. As a lover, the native is arch, flirtatious（轻浮的） , teasing and boyish. He is seldom vitally interested, and even when he is attracted, another personality can quickly charm him.

He is somewhat more satisfactory as a husband. Home ties do mean something to him, especially if he marries an intellectual companion. If however his wife is of the nagging（唠叨的，挑剔的） , demanding, possessive type, the Gemini husband will not be able to endure it. He is temperamentally unfit to endure constant pressure. When Gemini men have over-bearing wives, they often leave home. When they do not take such strong measures, they become that sad object, a hen-pecked husband.

Gemini women are exceedingly（非常，极其） refined. They have a rare, unapproachable delicacy that is very attractive to wealthy men, who wish to have wives who suggest class and appear to be well bred. The disposition is sunny, the mind, active and agile（敏捷的） , and the manner in society poised and charming. In private domestic life it is often a surprise to find so much animal passion in these fragile , bird-like women.