Yes, in life, we all make plans, but sometimes they don't turn out the way we expected. By trying to help out, we may damage a relationship. By attempting to reach out, we may push someone further away. By digging into the past, we may enrich our present. But then there are those who refuse to let go of their plans, no matter how badly they are turning out.

是的，生活中，我们计划周详，但结果常不尽如人意，想帮忙，却破坏了感情，想主动，却让他更疏远，想了解过去，结果充实了现在，但有些人，决不改变计划，不论进展多不如意.