咎由自取I have brought this upon myself. 出轨Have an affair with another womanCheat on his wifeCheat with another woman 公开道歉Public apology 恋爱虽易，婚姻不易，且行且珍惜。Being in love is easy, being married is not. It is to be cherished.Being in love is easy, being married is not. Cherish what you have at the moment.