文雅的举止的英文：
gentle manner

参考例句：

His good manners predispose people in his favor.
他的文雅举止使人们未经接触就对他产生了好感

gentle是什么意思：
adj. 温和的；高尚的；文雅的
v. 使温和，使驯服

As gentle as a lamb
(象羊羔)性情温顺的

This instrument has a gentle quality.
这个乐器音色柔和。

The natives were kind and gentle.
当地的人很和善，也很斯文。

He was a person of gentle blood.
他出身名门。

She is a gentle girl.
她是位高雅的姑娘。

manner是什么意思：
n. 方式，方法；态度；规矩；习惯；风俗；风格

in a delirious manner.
以精神极度兴奋的方式。

There was an ease in his manner——a gay and light manner it was.
他的态度从容大方――那是一种轻松、愉快的态度。

free and relaxed in manner.
自由的且行为上不拘束的。

It could not be all her manner.
这也许不全是她的风格。

They styled their house in the Portuguese manner.
他们以葡萄牙的风格设计他们的房子。